Normally we have are hand clutched around what we think is love and our fist is in a butter churn. When we love we finally let go of our predetermined notions and just see. So true love is the purest form of giving. When we give it's like we see the hole of the piece of ourselves that we're giving away. Then when we recieve we fill in that hole with something that was dear to someone else. Eventually becoming like the patchwork quilt. Or something....it's just a thought.